At the end of the day, I'm really only confused about two things. One, I'm surprisingly unfazed by this. I guess I disconnected a lot sooner than I realized. Two, I'm somewhat disappointed in the feedback I've received from friends and family. Lots of unnecessary "what a douchebag" and "she's an ugly bitch" responses. Why do people assume I want to hear terrible things about the both of them? Why is that normal?
In the end, I really just hope that he has learned to treat others well, because he certainly didn't do so with me.